Men don’t get offended.
Angry maybe, irritated at times and when things get really bad we might
knock some heads a bit to prove a point.
But we don’t get offended.
Why don’t true men get offended?
Simple. Being offended is a choice. It’s an excuse made by people to cover up for
their failures and shortcomings. It’s
human nature…if I can blame my faults on somebody else offending me, then I
don’t have to own that weakness or make effort to overcome it.
For example…somebody says something that hurts my feelings. I can do one of two things: a) Fix it so that
my feelings aren’t hurt by resolving the situation or I can b) allow those
feelings to fester and rot my soul while I wallow and self pity and blame that
other person for offending me to justify that feeling.
Which do you think is the manlier approach? Isn’t it obvious?