The other night my son, who is a senior in high school, and I were talking about going to college. He was commenting that he felt like he wasn't really learning anything useful in high school...and that it seemed that all high school was good for was to get you admitted to college where you'd learn real skills.
We debated that back and forth and he finally asked me "Dad, tell me one skill you learned in high school that you still use today."
I had to think for a while, but I finally came up with an answer...
You ready for it?
Friday, February 27, 2015
Friday, February 6, 2015
Men don’t get offended. Angry maybe, irritated at times and when things get really bad we might knock some heads a bit to prove a point. But we don’t get offended.
Why don’t true men get offended?
Simple. Being offended is a choice. It’s an excuse made by people to cover up for their failures and shortcomings. It’s human nature…if I can blame my faults on somebody else offending me, then I don’t have to own that weakness or make effort to overcome it.
For example…somebody says something that hurts my feelings. I can do one of two things: a) Fix it so that my feelings aren’t hurt by resolving the situation or I can b) allow those feelings to fester and rot my soul while I wallow and self pity and blame that other person for offending me to justify that feeling.
Which do you think is the manlier approach? Isn’t it obvious?